Last Friday was a typical night out. I met friends randomly around the city and then proceeded to pass out on my friend's couch even though a perfectly sizable bed with a cloud-like pillow top awaited me at my abode. Who needed the comforts of home when there was the perfectly good comfort of half a bottle of vodka coursing through my veins?
The next day was a tad more subdued. I spent the day nursing my hangover by laying around with Josh on the couch watching the League. A nice lil Saturday. We BBQ-ed some rather large chunks of meat and picked up a couple of bottles of wine, a very relaxing day for this ol' bag.
After dinner we got a call from our friend Cyril who invited us over. Assuming the night would continue in its serene manner, we brought over a bottle of wine. We never suspected the level of escalation our night would have taken...
Upon entering the building, we were greeted with approximately 20 inebriated Cubs' fans just released from the cages of Wrigley. Their ferocious appetites and desires for drunken antics was insatiable. We parted ways temporarily to meet Cyril in his apartment.
My intentions for the evening were unwavering...for the moment. I was going to sip a couple of glasses of wine and enter a semi-comatose state by 10 or 11 pm. 'Yes', I kept telling myself, 'I was going to remain strong in my efforts' simply out of pure exhaustion from the night before.
While sitting on the balcony, we wondered what all the commotion on the rooftop was. Our curiosity got the best of us; so we ventured upstairs. When we opened the doors, we were greeted by slobbering girls attempting to be sexual through matted hair and Jaeger stains while gyrating against guys who were so drunk that they had to hold on to the wall for balance. Meanwhile, it was still daylight so the awkwardness of the situation could not be hidden by the mystery of the night and was grossly enhanced especially to us sober folk.
We safely tiptoed through the sweat-soaked, mobile mass of people to the other side of the roof. After duly making fun of the amateurs, my friends figured it was our turn to cause a ruckus. Personally, I lacked the zeal to initiate any sort of tomfoolery so I did not partake in the festivities for about 20 minutes. But due to my undying loyalty to my friends who were in 'dire need' of another player for Flip Cup, I donned my best drinkin' shoes and joined the fun. It only took about 30 minutes before I started to feel the effects of fun. I knew at that point that I was in it to win it.
The party then ventured to the neighbors' place downstairs. At first, we weren't greeted too kindly since we were the randoms who came unannounced. But since alcohol is the cause of and solutions to all life's problems, we quickly made friends over a shot of Captain Morgan. And then the dancing began...
Since I am of Greek descent and was wearing jeans, I started sweating profusely. I asked Hans for a pair of shorts and much to my delight, I stumbled upon the greatest boxer shorts I have *ever* seen in real life. They proudly displayed the genitalia of the statue of David with the Italian flag as a background. My camisole was long enough to cover his bits 'n' pieces so unsuspecting spectators of the dance-a-thon would get a flash of wiener every other minute...much to their dismay.
Then things got weird. In true college style, one of the partiers decided to throw the entire empty keg off the roof on to the building next to us. Welp, there goes *that* deposit! People were just throwing random shit everywhere. Paper towels ended up in the fan and beer cans splattered the floor. All the while, the dancers never skipped a beat, even when the couch almost tipped completely over.
The most memorable portion of the night came shortly after. Several people were on the balcony enjoying flavor country via Marlboro and Parliament cigarettes when an overwhelming odor came upon us. I have an incredible sense of smell so I knew what it was right away, but living in the city I got used to funky smells. Then Cyril yelled out saying someone had POOPED on the balcony and that he had actually stepped in it. Yes, you read that right...POOP! Everyone stampeded into the house as if the defecation was the first sign of the apocalypse. Needless to say, the party was effectively over.
We returned to our poopless (thank God) residence to wind down, but again things didn't go as planned. During our drunk eating, someone (who shall remain nameless) began having fun with food. In my stupor I decided to eat the crap out of oreos (no pun intended) and place them back in the container without the creamy inside...makes perfect sense, right? Josh, who happens to be running training for a triathalon, decided to take the healthy route and eat a banana. Well, the actual eating part didn't last very long. I smashed oreos in his face and to my surprise that did not elicit the response I was hoping for. I was thinking I could absolutely take this dude on. I envisioned the whole thing in my head of tripping him up and spinning into a WWF bodyslam. Too bad he's double my size and HAS BEEN TRAINING FOR A TRIATHALON for the past few months. Silly me. Instead, he proceeded to pin me to the ground and CRAM the banana straight into my bra of all places. I still have the scratches on my ta tas. Wah.
After being nearly pooped on and banana-ed to death, I had given up on the night. I took a bath, not a shower mind you, in my friend's apartment to attempt to defunk myself. Nothing like a drunk bath to clean off the shame from the night... ugh.
So there you have it. Lesson learned: nights you think are going to be calm and subdued can turn dramatically the other way when you combine, beer, people, and poop into one place. Party wisely, my friends...
Friday, August 26, 2011
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
The Stealth Bomber
After working in an office setting for the past 6 months, I have to say that the corporate bathroom situation will always be a place of extreme anxiety. Now, I'll never know if men experience it in the same way women do, but it has got to be one of the most nerve-racking experiences that occurs on a daily basis. Even women don't think that other women fart or anything ever comes out of their back sides. We are women. We are beautiful, independent, smart and....defy the laws of physics(?) Yeah. not so much. But for some reason we still are extremely embarrassed to empty our digestive systems (a completely natural process) in the presence of others, most especially in front of other women. I don't know if I've ever encountered a woman who has enough confidence to disregard the 'evacuation process' as a mere nothing. I do, however, think there should be some consideration for others as you egest your food.
Here are a few guidelines to consider when visiting the water closet:
1. The courtesy flush is a must. I don't want to 'suddenly realize' that you had curry chicken with shiitake mushrooms last night.
2. If there are hand driers in there, USE THEM! If not to spare yourself, than for those poor souls whose evacuations are incredibly audible. It's a win-win really.
3. Don't stand around if you know someone is droppin a fat deuce. Don't stand and fix your make-up, hair, etc. Just leave. It's considerate to leave the premises as quickly as possible.
4. If you know it's going to be comparable to the bombing of Hiroshima, explore other bathrooms on different floors or other sides of the building to preserve some of your dignity through anonymity.
For some reason, a woman will sit on the toilet for over 20 minutes in complete silence if she's having a stand-off with another dueler. Neither makes a noise and pretends that they aren't filled up to their gizzards with poop, but they both secretly know. It's silly but we still get embarrassed. This is where the courtesy flush comes in and saves a lot of time and effort to conceal the truth. Just let it go... literally.
I hope that these words I impart to you will somehow make your life a little less stressful and that you will actually heed my advice. In this way, you may finally consider yourself a truly Stealth Bomber.
Here are a few guidelines to consider when visiting the water closet:
1. The courtesy flush is a must. I don't want to 'suddenly realize' that you had curry chicken with shiitake mushrooms last night.
2. If there are hand driers in there, USE THEM! If not to spare yourself, than for those poor souls whose evacuations are incredibly audible. It's a win-win really.
3. Don't stand around if you know someone is droppin a fat deuce. Don't stand and fix your make-up, hair, etc. Just leave. It's considerate to leave the premises as quickly as possible.
4. If you know it's going to be comparable to the bombing of Hiroshima, explore other bathrooms on different floors or other sides of the building to preserve some of your dignity through anonymity.
For some reason, a woman will sit on the toilet for over 20 minutes in complete silence if she's having a stand-off with another dueler. Neither makes a noise and pretends that they aren't filled up to their gizzards with poop, but they both secretly know. It's silly but we still get embarrassed. This is where the courtesy flush comes in and saves a lot of time and effort to conceal the truth. Just let it go... literally.
I hope that these words I impart to you will somehow make your life a little less stressful and that you will actually heed my advice. In this way, you may finally consider yourself a truly Stealth Bomber.
Monday, December 13, 2010
Monday Morning Walk of Shame...Into the Office.
This Sunday as I was walking to work in the bitter, maelstrom-esque blizzard, I noticed something I hadn't seen in quite some time. It was a girl dressed in yuletide attire walking down the street. You may think, well, that's not very odd. 'Tis the season! Then I got a closer look... She had NO coat in 15 degree weather. She was clutching her phone for dear life and her butt was covered with something that resembled holiday meat log remnants. At closer inspection, I realized that this was no evidence of defecation, but rather a schmear of dirt from the ground. PHEW! One less embarrassing factor for this girl, though still quite terrible.
Akin to picking up a lucky penny on the ground, I had caught a glimpse of the popular yet elusive Walk-of-Shamer. I had caught her in her natural element, outside of the stereotypical college campus and/or Halloween party (btw, the BEST day-after for spotting the mythical WOSer) I looked around as I felt at any moment poachers would shoot a tranquilizer dart at her for tagging and tracking. That may have very well put her out of her obvious misery. To her credit, she looked young enough to pull it off. Perhaps one of these days I will be blessed enough to witness the Cougar WOSer. But I hear they only exist in the Vegas and other old people vacation spots like Orlando and cruise ships...
The reason I describe this incident, is because I had a similar whirlwind of a night but at my office holiday party. I feel as though these events are ploys by the company to ensure that no one gets promoted. In my case, I felt I had little/nothing to lose. I'm temping at an awesome company with a very laid back attitude. But there is rumor about the company, that someone was fired for sexual harassment last spring at the annual company outing. I feared I would be the first girl in company history to continue the legacy of inappropriate touching/language. Though my act would be purely accidental. My spastic movement called 'dancing' could be misinterpreted to some due to my stellar skillz.
But back to the night in question... my last recollection was warming up my vocal cords with roughly 8 Jack and Cokes. Then I proceeded to stun the crowd with an ol' favorite, Sweet Caroline. I briefly remember some brash fist pumping and an inability to reach the 'high notes' (which there aren't any) so I continued to sing in the bass/tenor range. Not a very pretty sight especially with intermittent hacking front a winter cough I've been battling since quitting smoking. ....these were the last details I recall.
The next morning, I woke up with 11 sent text messages laying claim to my psuedo-boyfriend's belief in the afterlife and how idiotic women influence it. It was complete.jibberish. Though I must admit that my spelling/grammatical prowess did not lack despite the fact that my brain cells were not up to full function. Everything made sense from a purely mechanical perspective but the rants about how I 'LOVE HIM SO MUCH' came out to pure, and utter crap. Also, one thing that doesn't show up on my phone is how many times I place a call. I was later informed by the pseudo-boyfriend that it was exactly six times. SIX TIMES... Why do the boys we care the most about make us the craziest?? If this were some guy I'd been casually dating for 2-3 months, I wouldn't have even known that I had a phone. In fact, based on my history, I would have even gone so far as to re-create the inebriated olympic event, Phone-vaulting. Alas, my pseudo-relationship doom was sealed when I decided to take out my drunken rage/weirdness on to his poor, unsuspecting text/voicemail inbox.
I'd say the biggest and most painful side effect of the night's events was the football-sized bruise on my right leg. Based on it's appearance and gravity, I most like had one of three things occur. I either a.) slipped and fell on the icy sidewalk b.) was hit by a car or c.) got into a knife fight. Base on the fact that I didn't hear from the police or have an admittance band on my wrist from the hospital, deductive reasoning leads me to believe that the first option is most likely the truest. After consulting several witnesses of the evening, the conclusion is purely speculative. No one has actually seen the concreted beast that emerged from the sidewalk and attacked me.
Well, needless to say, I was extremely worried about the things I had done/said the night of the infamous holiday party. I was apprehensive to go in Monday morning. I approached with darting eyes and knowing stares. In a word, I was paranoid. I was doing....(gulp) the office walk of shame.
But it ended up being no big deal. Creepy part: my fortune cookie from lunch today said "You have a beautiful singing voice." I think it's my official calling to take up karaoke as a profession...or lounge singing.
Akin to picking up a lucky penny on the ground, I had caught a glimpse of the popular yet elusive Walk-of-Shamer. I had caught her in her natural element, outside of the stereotypical college campus and/or Halloween party (btw, the BEST day-after for spotting the mythical WOSer) I looked around as I felt at any moment poachers would shoot a tranquilizer dart at her for tagging and tracking. That may have very well put her out of her obvious misery. To her credit, she looked young enough to pull it off. Perhaps one of these days I will be blessed enough to witness the Cougar WOSer. But I hear they only exist in the Vegas and other old people vacation spots like Orlando and cruise ships...
The reason I describe this incident, is because I had a similar whirlwind of a night but at my office holiday party. I feel as though these events are ploys by the company to ensure that no one gets promoted. In my case, I felt I had little/nothing to lose. I'm temping at an awesome company with a very laid back attitude. But there is rumor about the company, that someone was fired for sexual harassment last spring at the annual company outing. I feared I would be the first girl in company history to continue the legacy of inappropriate touching/language. Though my act would be purely accidental. My spastic movement called 'dancing' could be misinterpreted to some due to my stellar skillz.
But back to the night in question... my last recollection was warming up my vocal cords with roughly 8 Jack and Cokes. Then I proceeded to stun the crowd with an ol' favorite, Sweet Caroline. I briefly remember some brash fist pumping and an inability to reach the 'high notes' (which there aren't any) so I continued to sing in the bass/tenor range. Not a very pretty sight especially with intermittent hacking front a winter cough I've been battling since quitting smoking. ....these were the last details I recall.
The next morning, I woke up with 11 sent text messages laying claim to my psuedo-boyfriend's belief in the afterlife and how idiotic women influence it. It was complete.jibberish. Though I must admit that my spelling/grammatical prowess did not lack despite the fact that my brain cells were not up to full function. Everything made sense from a purely mechanical perspective but the rants about how I 'LOVE HIM SO MUCH' came out to pure, and utter crap. Also, one thing that doesn't show up on my phone is how many times I place a call. I was later informed by the pseudo-boyfriend that it was exactly six times. SIX TIMES... Why do the boys we care the most about make us the craziest?? If this were some guy I'd been casually dating for 2-3 months, I wouldn't have even known that I had a phone. In fact, based on my history, I would have even gone so far as to re-create the inebriated olympic event, Phone-vaulting. Alas, my pseudo-relationship doom was sealed when I decided to take out my drunken rage/weirdness on to his poor, unsuspecting text/voicemail inbox.
I'd say the biggest and most painful side effect of the night's events was the football-sized bruise on my right leg. Based on it's appearance and gravity, I most like had one of three things occur. I either a.) slipped and fell on the icy sidewalk b.) was hit by a car or c.) got into a knife fight. Base on the fact that I didn't hear from the police or have an admittance band on my wrist from the hospital, deductive reasoning leads me to believe that the first option is most likely the truest. After consulting several witnesses of the evening, the conclusion is purely speculative. No one has actually seen the concreted beast that emerged from the sidewalk and attacked me.
Well, needless to say, I was extremely worried about the things I had done/said the night of the infamous holiday party. I was apprehensive to go in Monday morning. I approached with darting eyes and knowing stares. In a word, I was paranoid. I was doing....(gulp) the office walk of shame.
But it ended up being no big deal. Creepy part: my fortune cookie from lunch today said "You have a beautiful singing voice." I think it's my official calling to take up karaoke as a profession...or lounge singing.
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Feeling Like a Big Dump
So I got dumped....AGAIN! Surprise , surprise. Apparently you can't tame this bear. It's been a good ride though I must say. I got to live in Charlotte, NC for 11 months. We dated 6 out of 9 months long distance so I got the best of both worlds: drinking like a baffoon and having a cute, trustworthy boyfriend.
Now it's time to start all over again, but there's something refreshing (albeit sprinkled with involuntary bouts of uncontrollable sobbing) about being newly single. You remember all the fucking awesome friends you have. You also remember what daylight looks like. Spending every waking (and not waking) hour with someone makes you miss out on a lot of things you used to do and have. For instance, the first night of my singlehood, I went out and got hamboned wasted with old friends and got hit on by an in-the-closet gay guy. If I had had a boyfriend, I may never have had the opportunity to help this young, confused man to see his true calling towards glittery, banana hammocks as a permanent lifestyle.
Also, I get the chance to rekindle my love for Rose, Blanche, Sophia and Dorothy, those crazy old coots. I have the privilege of watching mini marathons of their AARP x2 moments in the wee hours of the morning. I've learned many a lesson from good ol' Blanche and her whore-y antics. Carrie Bradshaw's got nothing on that old bag.
I think the most bizarre thing to get used to is being able to check out other guys and actually have the ability to act on my carnal instincts. It's like shopping for puppies! Now that I'm working in a bar, the men seem to coming in droves. I think *everyone* may have gotten the memo that I'm newly detached. My brother's old coworker from a restaurant stumbled into my bar, drunk as a skunk, and asked me what I thought about short guys. Seeing as I'm 5'7" lots of guys are short to me especially since I occasionally like to don a pair of pumps when my anti-masculine side finds its way out of my closet.
But overall, the best part about being single is not having to answer to ANYONE. I get to scream things in public like, "OMIGOD, HER BUTT IS DISGUSTING!!" without repercussions from my significant other. If I want to do a cartwheel in the middle of a crowded street, I will!
Though he will be missed, I get to have at least one more hoorah before I have to calculate consequences for my actions (of course those just shy of illegal).
Funny Mom Moment:
Me: 'Mom, you have got to put out some more. Dad's attitude is just awful.'
Mom: 'You have NO idea how much I put out. Maybe you should start looking for an apartment for both of us.'
Haha.....ew
Now it's time to start all over again, but there's something refreshing (albeit sprinkled with involuntary bouts of uncontrollable sobbing) about being newly single. You remember all the fucking awesome friends you have. You also remember what daylight looks like. Spending every waking (and not waking) hour with someone makes you miss out on a lot of things you used to do and have. For instance, the first night of my singlehood, I went out and got hamboned wasted with old friends and got hit on by an in-the-closet gay guy. If I had had a boyfriend, I may never have had the opportunity to help this young, confused man to see his true calling towards glittery, banana hammocks as a permanent lifestyle.
Also, I get the chance to rekindle my love for Rose, Blanche, Sophia and Dorothy, those crazy old coots. I have the privilege of watching mini marathons of their AARP x2 moments in the wee hours of the morning. I've learned many a lesson from good ol' Blanche and her whore-y antics. Carrie Bradshaw's got nothing on that old bag.
I think the most bizarre thing to get used to is being able to check out other guys and actually have the ability to act on my carnal instincts. It's like shopping for puppies! Now that I'm working in a bar, the men seem to coming in droves. I think *everyone* may have gotten the memo that I'm newly detached. My brother's old coworker from a restaurant stumbled into my bar, drunk as a skunk, and asked me what I thought about short guys. Seeing as I'm 5'7" lots of guys are short to me especially since I occasionally like to don a pair of pumps when my anti-masculine side finds its way out of my closet.
But overall, the best part about being single is not having to answer to ANYONE. I get to scream things in public like, "OMIGOD, HER BUTT IS DISGUSTING!!" without repercussions from my significant other. If I want to do a cartwheel in the middle of a crowded street, I will!
Though he will be missed, I get to have at least one more hoorah before I have to calculate consequences for my actions (of course those just shy of illegal).
Funny Mom Moment:
Me: 'Mom, you have got to put out some more. Dad's attitude is just awful.'
Mom: 'You have NO idea how much I put out. Maybe you should start looking for an apartment for both of us.'
Haha.....ew
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
No More Secret Life of an American 20-Something!!
It's over....it's ALL over, thank GOD!!! I had pretty clear skin up until a week ago and the stress of planning a surprise for my young lover manifested itself on my face. Do men have *any* idea how difficult it is for a woman to keep a secret? It's like medieval torture! But it's over now and everything went off without a hitch.
Thursday (his actual birthday), I took it upon myself to drink enough for the both of us. I had time to kill between lunch with an old friend and dinner with Michael and his friends. So I did what any other person over the age of 15 would do: I had a few cocktails outside Wrigley Field with my brother. We talked about life and being somewhat jobless, its perks and downfalls, relationships with people who creepily have the same birthday, etc. Ya know, the stuff of life.
You could easily determine our monetary statuses by the 'uniqueness' of our evenings planned for our significant others. He was taking his girlfriend on a bike ride (cost: almost free), and I was taking my boyfriend to a discounted sushi night (cost: $70 for 5 people). Man, we really pull out all the stops for those we love.
The next morning I was hurting to say the least. Michael's friends were flying in to surprise him, and I was planning to play chauffeur. Planning was the key word there. My voracious hunt for a Taco Bell where I ordered a Sierra Nevada instead of a Sierra Mist put a kink in my plans. Too bad my BAC level and time management skills were a little off that day. I picked up his first friend, L. She's such an awesome girl that she was just happy to be there, even though I asked her to hop a train ride half way across the city through the worst part of town.
We quickly met up with Michael and headed out for drinks and appetizers at a local pub. The journey to the pub was *treacherous*!! It started to hail, then rain like a Hanoi monsoon, then the air started to swirl. I quickly say, "We should get to cover." I'm no Tom Skilling but the green sky, our metal surroundings and mini hurricanes in front of our faces tend to not be good signs. We headed inside and then things got really crazy. The rain came down so hard that we couldn't see an inch outside the windows....just in the nick of time. Phew!
When things settled down we got ready and headed to the W hotel to meet A and then to Italian Village. Then the second bout of rain began. It was terrrrrible. We couldn't find the door to the comedy show and we resorted to survival mode aka heading to the bar, Casey Moran's. For the typical southerner (which our guests were) this place was not exactly conducive to their lifestyles. Loud music and posers everywhere. We ventured to Glascott's instead, a more subdued and understated establishment. The final surprise came when we met J there. Then V wanted to head to a semi-club where we ended up in a sweaty basement full of skanks on the hunt for their next ex-husband. Ah yes, the real Chicago...(?)
The following day we woke up bright and early and met at Wrigley Field for some rooftop antics. Free food and booze for 3+ hours? You bet your sweet monkey butt we took advantage of it. I did, however, have an altercation with some metal stairs that left me with a nasty goose egg on my forehead. The bartender came running across with a bag of ice to ask if I was OK. Not my proudest moment but an AFV-esque mishap for the books. We ventured to Murphy's and found my sister who was already 4 sheets to the wind. I later came to find out that she ended up lost without a phone wandering the streets of Chicago looking for a place to crash. That girl needs a tether of some sort...
Unfortunately, I had to go to work completely hamboned at 5 PM after the game, but I sustained my drunkenness for the duration of my shift free of charge. I had a great time but felt bad that I couldn't hang out with Michael's friends from out of town. The next day I was called into work when I thought I didn't have to. Showing up in the clothes from the night before, and being an hour and a half late to work after a week of employment isn't the best way to make a good impression. Oops! I made good money though and sympathized with the hungover dad's on Fathers' Day.
Tidbit: Most people don't realize it but bartenders are on their feet for 7+ hours a shift. You'll never know the feeling of wanting to cut off your own feet until you've worked three back-to-back shifts. I've been walking like a 3-legged coyote who gnawed his way out of a bear trap.
Either way, the weekend as a whole was a good time. Michael's surprise face was a little lackluster and not exactly what I was going for, but I know he was happy. But from now on, no more surprises for the big galut. Until he turns 30....muhahahahaha
P.S. No Mom Story for this entry but check back in oh, I'd say about 4 hours, and I should have something good to relay.
Thursday (his actual birthday), I took it upon myself to drink enough for the both of us. I had time to kill between lunch with an old friend and dinner with Michael and his friends. So I did what any other person over the age of 15 would do: I had a few cocktails outside Wrigley Field with my brother. We talked about life and being somewhat jobless, its perks and downfalls, relationships with people who creepily have the same birthday, etc. Ya know, the stuff of life.
You could easily determine our monetary statuses by the 'uniqueness' of our evenings planned for our significant others. He was taking his girlfriend on a bike ride (cost: almost free), and I was taking my boyfriend to a discounted sushi night (cost: $70 for 5 people). Man, we really pull out all the stops for those we love.
The next morning I was hurting to say the least. Michael's friends were flying in to surprise him, and I was planning to play chauffeur. Planning was the key word there. My voracious hunt for a Taco Bell where I ordered a Sierra Nevada instead of a Sierra Mist put a kink in my plans. Too bad my BAC level and time management skills were a little off that day. I picked up his first friend, L. She's such an awesome girl that she was just happy to be there, even though I asked her to hop a train ride half way across the city through the worst part of town.
We quickly met up with Michael and headed out for drinks and appetizers at a local pub. The journey to the pub was *treacherous*!! It started to hail, then rain like a Hanoi monsoon, then the air started to swirl. I quickly say, "We should get to cover." I'm no Tom Skilling but the green sky, our metal surroundings and mini hurricanes in front of our faces tend to not be good signs. We headed inside and then things got really crazy. The rain came down so hard that we couldn't see an inch outside the windows....just in the nick of time. Phew!
When things settled down we got ready and headed to the W hotel to meet A and then to Italian Village. Then the second bout of rain began. It was terrrrrible. We couldn't find the door to the comedy show and we resorted to survival mode aka heading to the bar, Casey Moran's. For the typical southerner (which our guests were) this place was not exactly conducive to their lifestyles. Loud music and posers everywhere. We ventured to Glascott's instead, a more subdued and understated establishment. The final surprise came when we met J there. Then V wanted to head to a semi-club where we ended up in a sweaty basement full of skanks on the hunt for their next ex-husband. Ah yes, the real Chicago...(?)
The following day we woke up bright and early and met at Wrigley Field for some rooftop antics. Free food and booze for 3+ hours? You bet your sweet monkey butt we took advantage of it. I did, however, have an altercation with some metal stairs that left me with a nasty goose egg on my forehead. The bartender came running across with a bag of ice to ask if I was OK. Not my proudest moment but an AFV-esque mishap for the books. We ventured to Murphy's and found my sister who was already 4 sheets to the wind. I later came to find out that she ended up lost without a phone wandering the streets of Chicago looking for a place to crash. That girl needs a tether of some sort...
Unfortunately, I had to go to work completely hamboned at 5 PM after the game, but I sustained my drunkenness for the duration of my shift free of charge. I had a great time but felt bad that I couldn't hang out with Michael's friends from out of town. The next day I was called into work when I thought I didn't have to. Showing up in the clothes from the night before, and being an hour and a half late to work after a week of employment isn't the best way to make a good impression. Oops! I made good money though and sympathized with the hungover dad's on Fathers' Day.
Tidbit: Most people don't realize it but bartenders are on their feet for 7+ hours a shift. You'll never know the feeling of wanting to cut off your own feet until you've worked three back-to-back shifts. I've been walking like a 3-legged coyote who gnawed his way out of a bear trap.
Either way, the weekend as a whole was a good time. Michael's surprise face was a little lackluster and not exactly what I was going for, but I know he was happy. But from now on, no more surprises for the big galut. Until he turns 30....muhahahahaha
P.S. No Mom Story for this entry but check back in oh, I'd say about 4 hours, and I should have something good to relay.
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
You're-Still-Alive-Days So Be Happy!
It's been a slew of birthday celebrations in the past week: Brother, Sister, Father, Brother's girlfriend and Michael's. Their eerily close anniversaries of expulsions from their mothers' uteri came to a head on Sunday at my brother's apartment in Wrigleyville. After working my first shift back in the bar biz, I made my way over, donned in white, ready to decimate my purely, clad bodice with stains from fermented grapes. The scene was expected. The beer flowed like wine. Several friends from days gone by and a few unknown faces speckled here and there. One of the celebrants (who shall remain nameless) was dropped after an over-the-shoulder episode. It was a good crowd and only a few casualties from the party, but I hear they made a semi-quick recovery.
Today is my dad's 56th birthday. I came home and forgot the date. My sleep pattern has been off since I got back from NC, and I kept thinking it was 2 days from now. He left to play golf in a sullen, woe-is-me manner. I felt awful to say the least. On top of it, no one made plans and my mother had a meeting that would go until 8 PM. When he got back from golf you could tell he was a little tipsy. We chatted for about an hour until my mother came home. He told me that 56 was the age his dad died and therefore, it is time for his departure from this earth as well. Pretty morbid...I know.
It got me thinking about when I was 23 and up until that year, I had lived my mother's life. I went to an all-girls, Catholic high school, went to a 4 year college, got a job downtown and lived in Lincoln Park (only a few blocks from my mom's original apartment). She married at 23.....and I was no where close to it. I could even find a date much less a guy to go on multiple dates with. But it hit me not even a few months after my birthday: I AM NOT MY MOTHER! This is not a good thing or a bad thing. It's simply different. It's what makes us human. We all have a plan and though some may not agree with me due to anal retentive control issues, it is what makes life fun. We don't know what is in store for us.
In the midst of the myriad of birthdays, I never thought I'd come to such a serious conclusion. It helps to have a span of them to get the different perspectives of what each year means to each person. As a huge endorser of birthdays in general (not just for the boozy celebrations), I can't get enough of the fun but also the lessons learned. We get the chance at the beginning of the New Year to collectively reflect on how humans as a whole have developed and grown, or even have experienced sadness and loss. But each birthday should be happy because it is a manifestation of our individual growth on a literal and figurative level. We have a moment to ourselves to see what we have done and to give ourselves a little pat on the back. Be happy you've been given the chance, because living in a 3-generational house has taught me that life is fleeting. Make sure time flies by by having too much fun. :o)
Fun mom story:
Our dinner was steak and asparagus. After a few hours, my mother heads to the bathroom while I (an innocent bystander, mind you) was watching TV. She announces with the door open, "Asparagus...Process: Complete!!" Such a character.
Today is my dad's 56th birthday. I came home and forgot the date. My sleep pattern has been off since I got back from NC, and I kept thinking it was 2 days from now. He left to play golf in a sullen, woe-is-me manner. I felt awful to say the least. On top of it, no one made plans and my mother had a meeting that would go until 8 PM. When he got back from golf you could tell he was a little tipsy. We chatted for about an hour until my mother came home. He told me that 56 was the age his dad died and therefore, it is time for his departure from this earth as well. Pretty morbid...I know.
It got me thinking about when I was 23 and up until that year, I had lived my mother's life. I went to an all-girls, Catholic high school, went to a 4 year college, got a job downtown and lived in Lincoln Park (only a few blocks from my mom's original apartment). She married at 23.....and I was no where close to it. I could even find a date much less a guy to go on multiple dates with. But it hit me not even a few months after my birthday: I AM NOT MY MOTHER! This is not a good thing or a bad thing. It's simply different. It's what makes us human. We all have a plan and though some may not agree with me due to anal retentive control issues, it is what makes life fun. We don't know what is in store for us.
In the midst of the myriad of birthdays, I never thought I'd come to such a serious conclusion. It helps to have a span of them to get the different perspectives of what each year means to each person. As a huge endorser of birthdays in general (not just for the boozy celebrations), I can't get enough of the fun but also the lessons learned. We get the chance at the beginning of the New Year to collectively reflect on how humans as a whole have developed and grown, or even have experienced sadness and loss. But each birthday should be happy because it is a manifestation of our individual growth on a literal and figurative level. We have a moment to ourselves to see what we have done and to give ourselves a little pat on the back. Be happy you've been given the chance, because living in a 3-generational house has taught me that life is fleeting. Make sure time flies by by having too much fun. :o)
Fun mom story:
Our dinner was steak and asparagus. After a few hours, my mother heads to the bathroom while I (an innocent bystander, mind you) was watching TV. She announces with the door open, "Asparagus...Process: Complete!!" Such a character.
Thursday, June 10, 2010
Home Again, Home Again, Jiggity Jig(?)
Me: 25 year old, female. Status: living with my parents after a brief, quarter-life crisis.
Brief Life Synopsis from July 2009 to June 2010:
I hated my job working at a pregnancy counseling center. No men, too much alcohol and access to about $30,000 to start a new life and off I went. I moved to Charlotte, NC to see what I could find on my own (hopefully a human of the male persuasion). Background: I had been on 3 dates in 3 years and my only boyfriend was a drug addict, bassist from Daytona Beach, FL who is currently running from the IRS and government after the mortgage crisis imploded...need I say more? You would have pulled the same stint I did given the chance.
The last 6 months of 2009 were...interesting (to say the least). I dated the chode of all chodes. Lesson learned. Switched roommates and apartments after the new year and decided to get serious by looking for a 'real' job (if those even exist anymore). Too bad for me, I fell in love with a native North Carolinian who came home for Christmas...he lived in Chicago (my home town). Woe is me and oh the irony! I *finally* had freed myself from the midwestern curse of cruising bars for eligible (and extremely privileged, snotty and self-entitled) bachelors and come right back to where I started: home.
Long distance makes for an honest woman so I should be grateful, because once you realize you can't rely on your physicality, you inevitably get down to the meat of it all. Your real personality shows through and the receiving and unsuspecting victim either takes it or leaves it. Fortunately and oddly, he still likes me after 6 months of long distance relations via contemporary technology. Phew! Apparently making fart jokes and talking about my bathroom (mis)adventures hasn't scared him off...yet. With that in mind, I don't know if I should be relieved or worried in my choice of partner...
Current Position in Life:
After living a carefree and expensive life in the overly friendly South, I made an executive decision after consulting the last of my brain cells left from the Drunk Disaster of 2009, to come home and live rent/utility free with my parents. To be honest, living at home isn't too bad. My parents remodeled their basement to include a flat screen every 20 ft. and a bar where I can enjoy my yeast-laced libations to my heart's delight. Oh yeah, the free food ain't too shabby either.
As for the general ambiance, I am quick to forget the livelihood and crassness of my own mother's imagination. I always knew it before, but I really am my mother's daughter. Her mind goes from the gutter up and her sense of humor follows suit. The only difference is that although we both drank our faces off in college and in our early 20's, I retained my mental filter while my mother hilariously (and most times awkwardly) has not. As of about 2 minutes into writing this paragraph about the general environment of my childhood home, my mother referenced the abuse of Catholic Archbishops, damning their behavior while giving an overly vivid demonstration of the extent to which they abused. It went something like this: My mother pointing and extending her index finger in a poking motion while mouthing the words 'anal sex' as if she was teaching the birds and bees to a person who's IQ was below 70. On the Richter Scale of ridiculousness, my mother is at a steady 12...we cower at the thought of the aftershock from such demonstrations to anyone under the age of 15. But to everyone else in my family, it's just mom being mom.
If I can take pretty much *everything* she says with a grain of salt and supply some sort of emotional buffer between my parents, I'm sure I can stave off 'Empty Nest Syndrome' long enough to get her through the change. For this, my father will be eternally grateful. That may even help my inheritance a little, but I wouldn't count on it. You'd have to be super human to influence the uncanny, hormonal fluctuation of a menopausal woman. Just ask Joan Rivers' daughter Melissa. She's been dealing with Joan going through the change since 1968!
As of now, I'll be bartending downtown at a lil ol' place called Third Rail. Where the drinks go down easy and so do the women. Hah! I kid, I kid. Hopefully, I'll be able to make some dough to get my life back on track and to literally pay for my past 'sins of the fodder'. I'm re-assimilating into Chicago culture so I'm doing what every single, young, coed does: joining a softball league. There, I shall (not) live up to the family standard of athleticism and lead my team to victory via embarrassing running and awkward batting stances to which only a frightened turtle can relate.
Until then, my friends, don't fall ill to the temptation of hibernation.
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